The Kinko's Kondondrum
The Dear Rich Staff refers to your situation as the Kinko's Konondrum -- so named because we once faced this exact situation at a Kinko's (before they were FedExKinko's ... er, FedExOffice) and we tried to explain to the clerk behind the counter that we were the author of a book on copyright and that yes, our use was permissible even though we did not have permission. The clerk wasn't interested in our claims and we couldn't blame him. (This was a few years after Kinko's had lost a fair use case over coursepack copying). In the end, we lied to get the job done. We do not advise you to lie and wish you the best in dealing with your moral dilemma. BTW, we hope you like our artistic take on Mary's hat throw -- we call it 'Love is All Around.'